Discipline is about helping children learn how to behave appropriately. You can use a range of discipline strategies to teach your child with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) the basics of good behaviour.<\/p>\n
Discipline is helping your child learn how to behave \u2013 as well as how not to behave. It works best when you have a warm and loving relationship with your child.<\/p>\n
Discipline and discipline strategies are positive. They\u2019re built on talking and listening. They guide all children towards:<\/p>\n
Like all children, children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) benefit from:<\/p>\n
These discipline strategies are explained below, along with some ways that you can change them to suit the development and understanding of your child with ASD.<\/p>\n
Praise<\/em><\/p>\n Praise\u00a0\u00a0is when you tell your child what you like about his behaviour. When your child gets praise for behaving well, he\u2019s likely to want to keep behaving well.<\/p>\n Descriptive praise is when you tell your child exactly what it is that you like. It\u2019s best for encouraging good behaviour \u2013 for example, \u2018Thank you for staying calm when you didn\u2019t win the game\u2019.<\/p>\n Many children with ASD enjoy praise and want to behave well again to get praise. But some children with ASD don\u2019t respond to praise. If your child tends to withdraw from other people she might not be motivated to do things to please others. Or if your child doesn\u2019t have much language she might not understand the positive words you\u2019re using.<\/p>\n You can help your child with ASD learn to respond to praise. At first you might need to add something to help your child link positive words with the things he likes doing. This could be something to play with or an activity. After a while, your child might eventually enjoy the praise on its own.<\/p>\n Rules<\/em><\/p>\n Rules are positive statements that let children know how they\u2019re expected to behave and what the limits are in your family.<\/p>\n The rule might be that your child can\u2019t play in the morning until she\u2019s ready for school \u2013 for example, \u2018First get ready, then have playtime\u2019. You could use a visual support like a timer to show your child how long there is until you need to leave for school. When your child has finished getting ready she can play for the time left on the timer. If the timer has finished, there\u2019s no time to play.<\/p>\n Consequences<\/em><\/p>\n A consequence is something that happens after your child behaves in a particular way. Consequences can be positive or negative.<\/p>\n Consequences are a good way to back up rules \u2013 that is, when your child breaks a rule, you give him a consequence. When you use consequences in the same way and for the same behaviour every time, your child knows what to expect.<\/p>\n This means it\u2019s good to plan consequences if you can. For example, if your child is fighting over a toy, you put the toy away for 10 minutes, or if your child swears she might lose TV time.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re planning consequences, it\u2019s best not to stop or reduce the time your child with ASD spends on his area of intense interest. Your child probably finds his interest calming, so stopping him from doing it could lead to more misbehaviour.<\/p>\n If your child doesn\u2019t have many interests or you can\u2019t think of things she\u2019d miss if you took them away as a consequence, it\u2019s best to use praise and rewards to change how your child behaves.<\/p>\n It\u2019s best to\u00a0use more positive consequences for good behaviour than negative consequences for bad behaviour. Praising your child or giving positive consequences for good behaviour six times for every negative consequence is a good ratio.<\/p>\n Time-out<\/em><\/p>\n Time-out can be a useful consequence if your child has hurt someone else, or destroyed something. It can give your child a chance to calm down away from the situation.<\/p>\n Time-out involves taking your child away from interesting activities and not giving him attention for a short period of time.<\/p>\n Time-out might not work if your child tends to be withdrawn, or has a lot of self-stimulatory behaviors. Time-out could end up being a reward rather than a negative consequence if it gives her time alone or time to stim.<\/p>\n Instead, it might be better to give your child a positive consequence when he\u2019s behaving well.<\/p>\n Punishment<\/em><\/p>\n Discipline doesn\u2019t always \u2013 or even often \u2013 mean punishment.\u00a0Punishment is giving your child a negative consequence when she breaks a rule or misbehaves. It\u2019s a way of letting your child know that her behaviour isn\u2019t acceptable.<\/p>\n For example, your child might use a toy in a dangerous way, like throwing it. The punishment might be that you take away the toy for a set amount of time. It can help to show your child with a visual timer how long the punishment will last.<\/p>\n Physical punishment \u2013 for example, smacking \u2013 doesn\u2019t teach children how to behave. And it can hurt your child.<\/p>\n Sometimes a child with ASD might seem like he\u2019s behaving inappropriately. But actually he doesn\u2019t have the skills to handle the situation.<\/p>\n For example, your child doesn\u2019t say hello to someone. She isn\u2019t being rude on purpose \u2013 she might not know she should say hello. She might start hitting something because a particular noise is upsetting her. Or she might smear poo on the wall because she likes the warmth and texture of it, not because she wants to upset you or do the wrong thing.<\/p>\n Before you punish a child with ASD in situations like this, it\u2019s worth thinking about whether:<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Source: Raising Children Network<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Discipline is about helping children learn how to behave appropriately. You can use a range of discipline strategies to teach your child with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) the basics of good behaviour. About discipline Discipline is helping your child learn how to behave \u2013 as well as how not to behave. 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